I want to begin this post by greeting my mother, Maria Bernardita R. De Leon, a happy mother’s day! 🙂 Thank you for being such a generous, loving, and supportive mother.
And now to the other business of this post. Ever since it came to my senses that there is such a celebration dedicated to honoring all mothers every second Sunday of May, I had this odd but [I think] a relevant dilemma. Whenever I want to greet my mother or others’ mothers, I did not know where to put the apostrophe in this Happy Mothers’ or Mother’s Day thing.
I always thought that it was Mothers’, i.e., putting the apostrophe after the plural noun “mothers” making it a plural possessive. I meant that this day is for all mothers and not solely for my mother. But it turned out after reading another blog post that Anna Jarvis, the (culprit) founder of this worldwide commercial event in 1908, wrote in an article during her lifetime that it was supposed to be Mother’s Day, i.e., putting the apostrophe after the letter “r” and before the letter “s.” She wanted it that way so that all people will individually honor their mothers and not as a worldwide event.
Therefore, each family ought to honor their mother in this celebration of Mother’s Day. Also, I think that it is not a matter of where the apostrophe is located in the word mothers. I think we all have to be grateful to all mothers who have nursed us during our infancy, molded us during our formative years, cooked for us every night at dinner, gave us advices when we desperately needed them, prayed incessantly to God and to their model, Mama Mary, in order to keep their families safe, etc.
Still, because of Anna Jarvis, the imperialists made this a commercial and secularized event. But that’s another story.
Until my next post. Happy Mother’s Day to my mother and Happy Mothers’ Day to your mom and to all moms in the world. 🙂